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Trying to fit a square peg in a round hole is a Watch Femdom Porn 2023 OnlineWatch Femdom Porn 2023 Online bummer. But trying to fit a lubed-up dildo in a hungry butthole can be a blast. Welcome to pegging! Pegging is when a woman performs anal intercourse on a man with the help of a strap-on dildo. A woman can also peg another woman.

The term was coined 15 years ago when sex columnist Dan Savage ran a contest back in 2001 asking readers to vote on a name for the act. (The losers were "bobbing" and "punting.") "There are lots of stereotypes and myths about pegging, the most common being if you like it, you must be gay," says Tristan Taormino, a sex educator, porn filmmaker, and the author of eight books including The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women. "You can just really love anal pleasure, and it won’t change your sexual orientation." Taormino notes that prostate stimulation, which is what pegging accomplishes in men, is a "gateway to amazing orgasms" for dudes.

How To:

Once both people decide they are game, the first step is shopping for the right toy. You want to find a harness and strap-on that are comfortable for the pegger to wear (more detail on those right here), and of course comfortable for the man being pegged. "I always say he picks the dick," Taormino says.

The woman obviously won’t have any sensation in the dildo itself, so it’s important for the partner who’s being penetrated to take the lead and control the pace. Communication and patience are key, as is lots of lube. Seriously, use lots.

Doggy style is obviously an easy position to peg in, but feel free to mix it up. There are as many fun pegging positions as there are colors of the rainbow. Cosmopolitan.com has a whole list of cool ways to fuck your dude. One favorite is reverse cowboy, which is where a dude sits on your lap facing away from you as you take him from behind.

Whatever position you land on, flipping the script on traditional gender roles can be a fun way to spice it up.

Variations:

The variations mainly depend on the type of dildo you choose. There are large ones, small ones, realistic-looking ones, and vibrating ones.

But pegging is about more than just toys: It involves psychological arousal, as well as physical. "It’s really exciting for women to experience this new kind of sex and to be the penetrator." Taormino says. "Likewise, it’s exciting for men to experience a whole new kind of pleasure of being penetrated, which can change the sexual game for men."

Related Terms:

Anal sex

Rimming

Strap-on

Butt plug

Pegging in Popular Culture:

Leave it to the ladies of Broad City to do a hilarious, laugh-til-you-cry scene on pegging. In season two, episode four, Abbi finally gets a chance to bone her long-time crush Jeremy. While they’re getting busy, he decides to ask for a little favor: Would she mind penetrating him with a strap-on? What follows is arguably one of the funniest sex scenes ever on television.